SINGAPORE: The fiancée of one of the 10 sailors missing from an American guided-missile destroyer is hopeful he will be safe and return home for their wedding next year.
Megan Partlow, 21, told The Straits Times on Tuesday afternoon that she has been notified that her fiancé, Jacob Drake, 22, is among the sailors who went missing after the USS John S. McCain and merchant vessel Alnic MC collided in the waters off Johor on Monday.
Her fiancé’s parents received a visit from a US naval representative at 6pm on Monday, about 12 hours after the incident, and informed her immediately afterwards.
The two are planning to wed in July next year.
“I have spent the last six months planning a wedding that may never happen, as well as planning on moving this December to live with him,” Partlow said via Facebook Messenger, adding that she is living in Ohio and that Drake is expected to be stationed in North Carolina from December.
“I just want him to come home safe,” she added.
For more than 24 hours, American Justine Coleman also fretted about the whereabouts of her estranged son, a 20-year-old who was believed to be aboard the USS John S. McCain.
The destroyer is based in Japan and was en route to Singapore early on Monday morning when the collision took place.
Unable to get hold of her son directly or get through to the McCain hotlines, Coleman turned to a Facebook group for former crew members of the ship: “My son is aboard that ship. Please pray he is okay.”
Coleman, who lives in Houston, said she was desperate for any sign that her son – whom she declined to name – was okay.
More than nine hours after she left the message, she told The Straits Times over Facebook Messenger at 11.30am on Tuesday: “Things have not changed, and my heart hurts so bad.”
It was a worry shared by many of the crew’s family members and loved ones. Apart from the 10 missing, another five were injured.
Another worried mother was Theresa Palmer, who wrote on a Facebook group for members of the ship: “Waiting to hear from my son … I am sick with worry.”
Toni Greim-Findley, whose brother is on the ship, wrote: “Please send word to us, please. I am absolutely dying.”
At around 12.30pm on Tuesday, a single phone call put Coleman’s anxiety – and perhaps that of others – to rest.
A US Navy representative called and told her that the families of those sailors who are missing or were injured had already been notified – in other words, no news was good news.
The representative added that some sailors might not have access to phones.
Still, the phone call came as a great relief to Coleman.
“Now I pray he will call us soon,” she said reported by The Straits Times/Asia News Network